Disparity August 23, 2008
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My real world does not resemble with my blog world even though both are made out of people.
I don’t know why ?
All this While August 13, 2008
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Excited;
Anxious;
Enthusiastic ;
Stressed;
Worried;
Happy ;
Depressed;
Energetic ;
Smiley ;
Irritated;
Confused ;
Silent;
Peaceful;
Contented;
Questioning;
This is how I have been feeling !! I love the variety Life has got to offer ….
Pondering August 7, 2008
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“J” studies in first standard here. She used to love her school a lot; until few days ago.
She had issues with her class teacher. She did not like her. During her meeting with her principal she complained about her class teacher.
The teacher in turn scolded her. She made “J” realize that “You are not beautiful; No boy is gonna like you !! “
She did not celebrate her birthday in the class; She did not appreciate her computer project.
Now with the name of school “J” gets into tears. She says she is scared of Boys.
What good it has done making a six year old girl conscious about how she looks ? Isn’t it this age to think about games, flowers, paintings, toys, books and everything else other than looks , boys ?
Just wondering why the teacher wanted to tear off the innocence so quickly ? What purpose did it solve after all ?
Thought for the Day August 5, 2008
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For some people ( Well , they contribute to become major of this world )
Other’s Personal Life is the Best Gum in this world to chew on !!
Actually can not blame them at times; when we ourselves provide the inputs and see how juicy and tasty our life sounds when it is talked about !!
It’s a Brand new Day July 30, 2008
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When I woke up today ; there was this Brand new day awaiting for me ; welcoming me to this world !!
I could see the happiness reflecting every where …can you see it here ?
The beaming blue sky blessing me with its rays of hopes !!
One Life … July 24, 2008
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I met the couple “P” & “M” recently. Both are exactly opposite.
“P” : Extremely health consicous. Reads Ingredients and Nutrition charts before buying a thing. Very regular in pranayama and yoga. No junk food and sweets. No alcohol either.
“M” : Extremely fond of Junk food. Taste of the food is above all other things. Loves to eat out. Does Pranayama and yoga m but given a chance she would love to skip them. They are mostly there to keep those extra kgs off. 
Do most of us see ourselves resembling to “M” ? 
“P” thinks - “Being the only man in the family , he has lot of responsibilities. I need to be healthy and fit to take care of all. Health is above all other things. Jaan hai to jahan hai “
“M” who had her own set of health hazards thinks- “Any way one day we are gonna die. Until then I want to enjoy life. I don’t expect to live too long and all. But I don’t want miss all the pleasures of life and have that life !! “
Hummm….I am confused. Don’t know who is right and who is wrong ?
Fortunately or Whatever I have met many people who eat everything, be happy and lead a moderately active life are healthy and fit.
Then there are those who eat healthy and have a active life and still struggle with health hazards.
I fail to understand.
Whether you should skip all those mouth watering food ( read masala dosa, samosa, chaats) and have something has no taste ( like whole wheat- dry roasted oats, dry skimmed milk powder swiss style museli, no sugar oat meal cookies, low fat cheese with roasted brown bread, salads ) ??
Or leave everything aside and believe in the funda that “A happy mind has a happy heart ”
What do you think ?
Uncomforting Familarity July 22, 2008
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The home place is always choicest location and very close to heart. No matter where your life takes you. You carry along all those moments of growing up and bonds with the people there and place. They are frozen in your memory.
Not very long ago I decided to spent quite some good amount of time at my home place. The place where I have born and spent a good amount of time of my life. Today I could not feel the same comforting vibe there. It was very strange and sad.
I know the place, i know the roads, I know the spots, shops, faces, still something is missing. I could not connect back.
The city has changed, people have changed. I have changed. Perspective has changed. I don’t see the known faces there any more. People I have known have moved on. Among the rest , they have their own life.
I had lots of empty time and people were busy. I was searching for a purpose. I was searching ways to kill time. I kept on comparing. I could find 100 flaws associated with the place. This was the same place where I loved being there.
Things change; we still keep searching for the image in our mind. It gives us comfort. The moment we see reality different than that ; we get agitated, the discomfort shadows over. Strange but true !!
“Come ….Fall in Love “ July 22, 2008
Posted by BlueMist in Cheerios, Just Like That, Perceptions of Life.Tags: Fun, Love
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Is there an age limit to think emotionally ?
As a norm I feel we , the people grow in age , we enhance our thinking capabilities. We outgrow our decision making capability than it was when we were in early twenties. The decisions are more practical and taken with level heads on.
Guess I was wrong. When a person falls in Love , it screws up the all so called capabilities.
It can make most balanced level headed person to talk emotions , eat emotions and what not !!
Guess when you are in mid thirties; you save up all your emotional side for that “someone” special, when you finally meet her, you land up in soup dominated by that emotional side of yours.
It is funny to see someone who was practical to the core, who looked into all aspects before taking any decisions, now speaks like cheesy , mushy Bollywood hero !!
It is passing phase…I have no doubts about it
You will bounce back to your own self….and you will laugh of your own role play
Until then “Come ….Fall in Love ” 
Heaven July 11, 2008
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“Chandan sa Badan , chanchal chitvan …” Song from “Sarswati-Chandra ” Playing in the background ; Enjoying the day light at this late hour of day when it was supposed to be dipped in the darkness of night ; “yours truly” engrossed in preparing the dinner. As they say “Duniya se Bekhabar ”
The song heard many times before but never sounded so sweet and so romantic !!
It is just my crazy mind or something else ? Dunno !!
P.S : You might wonder what’s so special about all the things ? Actually nothing !! I just learnt to appreciate tiny winy pleasures of life !!
Thanks Lord for making Life sound like Heaven !! Touch Wood .
“Jab dil hi toot gaya” etc. etc. July 4, 2008
Posted by BlueMist in Just Like That, Perceptions of Life, Random Scribbles.Tags: Blogs
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I was cleaning up my reader. When I looked at the links I unsubscribed most of the blogs were from the “Broken Heart” Category. I have decided not to visit any such blogs for a simple reason I fail to see zeal for life in those writings. They lack that optimism and will to give life a second chance.
I firmly believe that somethings in life are not just meant for you; at the same time it can not be a stopping stone or end of life. Life has to move on and you will eventually find something that is just made for you. Right ?
In real life outside the blog world , I have come across many people who have been there in the relationships that did not work. They had their part of down days , at certain point their life got back to normal, now they are as happy as we all are. I see a will to be happy behind all these efforts they have put in. I appreciate them for standing straight and embracing the life with open arms. That’s what is suppose to be done. No ?
