Colors And Lights

I am more of a private person. I seriously don’t like people crossing their limits when talking about others personal stuff. Don’t know about others; but I am very catious when I talk to other people and draw the line no matter how close is the person. We all have to issues/topics/feelings/emotions we don’t want to talk about and I respect that.

But unfortunately I have come across very few people who realize this. Those people who are great at networking; I have found that they are great at gossip as well. Tell them one news and with in minutes; it is talk of the town. I don’t understand the fun in it and there is no concern that it might hurt the sentiments of the people involved into the news.

Frankly I find it very cheap. I would skip such kind of networking and prefer being alone. I fail to understand why people want to know things like

“If it is love marriage or arrange marriage ? “

“Does she earn more than her spouse ? “

“You are married for so and so years then still why you don’t have kids ? “

“You are a vegetarian and your spouse is not. Probably because you have love marriage ? “

“What does that so and so managers wife does ?Does she work ? “

” X and Y are always together. Are they seeing each other ? “

“Oh her husband is not with her. Guess they have some issues. ”

Total crap. Man , go and get a life. There is so much to worry about your own life; why bother about what is happening in other’s personal life ? Give a break and see how best you can do for yourself.

Many of them are aware that they are collecting gossip information and they are cool about it. They tell clearly “I am asking you because I can not ask the person involved directly “. Whoa what guts I must say !!

I have no words to tell them; and it is not of use. They better learn to keep the distance otherwise they will definitely get back. Oh yes ; they deserve that !!

P.S: If you feel the post is sounding strong; forgive me; these people really get onto my nerves.